Stop feeling like distant roommates with your husband.
Things just haven’t been the same after having kids.
What if you could communicate without arguing, bring that spark back, and actually enjoy intimacy- All while raising kids that take all your time and energy?
It can be so much easier than you think!
Balancing motherhood and marriage is hard.
(It's not just you)
What if this was your new normal
Instead of feeling
Maybe you're asking yourself...
"Am I the only one whose marriage is crumbling under the weight of endless cries and dirty diapers?"
This is the loudest thought in your mind when you see that Influencer Family in their matching pajamas on Christmas.
They have three kids and still look so in love. How?!
Then your heart sinks when you walk by the mirror and realize your maternity pants have become your uniform, your hair is falling out in clumps, and you only remember to shower when your armpits remind you that it’s been too long. *Shrugs and wipes spit up from shoulder.*
But your husband? He gets to walk out of the house into the real world every day. And his after 5 routine is friends, PS4, scrolling the ‘Gram, repeat. Then he tucks himself in bed and is oblivious to how many times you get up in a haze to shush or feed your baby.
When will we get to the tears of joy and magical bonding everyone talks about?
"How did we go from late night pillow talk to going days without having a conversation?"
If most Moms were honest, they’d tell you your marriage will go on the back burner if you’re not intentional about staying connected.
It’ll become a hamster wheel full of resentment and disappointment.
Some days you’ll just want to run away and never look back.
But that would be a crappy thing to say at your baby shower, so your friends just say “Aww, you’re gonna love being a Mom. Your life will change the moment your baby is born.”
They were right about that.
All you want is to stop feeling like a single mom
in your marriage
This is how my 3 step process will get you there
(Even if your husband is a little iffy at first)
It's not that he forgot to take out the trash (again),
It's that he doesn't appreciate how much you do all day
This is for you if
Your marriage is the foundation to a partnership in parenting
This is what a healed marriage could look like for you
You're not just changing the path of your marriage; You are breaking the cycle of resentment, anger, and divorce so your future generations can thrive.
Here's what you can expect on our first call
Meet your Coach
I am uniquely positioned to bring calm
to your storm
I sift through words and dig up the root of those conflicts that keep popping up every day in your marriage.
Becoming a first time mom during the height of Covid was a special kind of chaos that hit my marriage like a bull in a china shop.
We kept falling into the same pattern of arguments and we were growing further apart by the day
There were strategic steps we took to forgive, heal, and thrive so that we could divide the work load and stay connected as a couple.
Now I can fast track your success because I've done the work and can pinpoint why you keep going in circles.
It’s possible to be better than before. You can even have the smiles and matching Christmas pajamas if that’s your thing.
Don’t let this cute pic fool you. It was the first time I did my hair and makeup since my DIY maternity pics, and we didn’t realize that the baby had her first double ear infection (oops!)
I won’t be showing up nearly as glamorous to our Zoom call. And you don’t have to either!
Do you have payment plans?
Yes! There are payment plans for the Premium and VIP packages.
Do you offer refunds or guarantee results?
Due to the nature of my service, I do not offer refunds at any point. I do not guarantee any results. The only thing I can guarantee is that I am all in when I support you. Your results depend on your willingness to implement what we discuss and make changes to whatever isn’t serving you.
Does my husband have to attend the sessions?
Yes. I know there’s “working from home” stuff, naps, bottles, and corporate Zoom calls that should’ve been emails. 🙂 But it’s important that you both hear each other’s perspective in an encouraging environment.
How quickly can we get results?
You can start making positive changes the same day we work together! During our first call, I will give you a clear and easy first step to take to start reconnecting. But this is not a quick fix. It takes time to start new patterns and heal the hurts that have piled up over time.
What if I feel we're too broken to make progress?
Avoid making permanent decisions (like divorce) out of temporary emotions. We need to have a clarity call to determine if we are a good fit to work together or if another option would better suit you. Find a time that works for you here.
Does my husband have to be on board for this to work?
Absolutely! Even if coaching is brand new to him, he has to have an open mind and be intentional. It’s imperative that you both do the follow up work so you can get the results you both want.
What does it take to succeed and get out of this funk?
You both have to be willing to get a little vulnerable and uncomfortable (I help you break the ice so it’s not awkward!) And you both have to be at a point where you know something has to change because you’re dangerously close to splitting up your family.
Is it ok to bring my baby to the session?
Your Mommy instinct draws your attention to your baby at all times. Ideally, you would have help with the baby for an hour so you can direct all your attention to the session. We would need to talk more about this in a clarity call so we can figure out what schedule works best for you. Find a time that works for you here.
Who doesn't qualify?
If there is abuse of any kind (physical, mental, gas lighting) in your relationship, I will not endorse you staying and trying to make it work. If there is a reliance on drugs or alcohol to cope, I encourage you to consider if that’s a sustainable lifestyle you want long term, and seek individual therapy to help you in that decision.